Sunday, November 23, 2008
love......
There are many things we got to go through in life. Love, career...... all the up and down.. You don't "Aga Aga" with your life. In the end, you will have a Aga Aga life. As in, you don't know what to do next. You are lost. "Aga" is a very DANGEROUS word ever to use! If you "Aga" your life, it means you doesn't even bother about how you gonna live in the future. You won't know what's your future is going to be.If your Aga-ration is so accurate, there won't be any penniless person. You won't see so many perseverance small kids and aunties going table to table at coffee shop selling tissue. And there will be alot of millionaire.Some human beings just doesn't know how to solve the problem with relationships. Though there are no perfect couples around. But at least we have to know the basics in to it.. What are basics. Its you know what to do. When to give in. When not to. Giving in too much.. they will start to take it for granted. Doesn't appreciate what you do for them. And this started to changed their mindset of you. They will start thinking that.. I AM RIGHT ! YOU ARE WRONG ! WHATEVER I DO YOU MUST LISTEN. YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT. LISTEN TO ME BEFORE I LEAVE YOU. AND YOU WILL REGRET FOR LIFE ! MUHAHAHA! F*** you people. This will starts them to change their attitude towards you.To maintain a good relationship is to understand the person. Doesn't get stress over what they do. Have trust in them. Understands what they are doing. No matter how long they have to wait for them to finishes their work and not get pissed off over it. Not to tied them too hard. Gives more freedom for friends.When you're in a relationship, PLEASE don't forget about your friends. If you do so, sooner or later.. You will find yourself lonely in a black and white world. No rainbows over you. No more sunshine. And nightmares will be your new friends...When you are willing to share your problems with your friends. Listen to their advise and think back what you have done wrong. What's the point for you to keep speaking for yourself and the other party when you are here to share your damn problem and doesn't listen to our advise. You are just here to entertain us and telling us how great you are. We have been through alot so we are able to share with you what's going on. You have to cope it well. Don't think that future will be how you think right now. In this period of time, things start to change... You will never know what's going on tomorrow. Even worst, in the future. What you think is that.. We are telling you bad. Shoot all the bullshits to you from us. "Aga" your future where you don't even have a stable career or something. One just cant take people's advise you might as well stay at home keep banging on the wall or you can just shut up drink your f***ing chinese tea and listen to our craps. Don't be a loser. Have to change your childish thinking. Be more matured.We never know what is going to happen next. Don't ever "Aga" your life. Dream is good. But.. don't day dream or expect it to come. High expectation isn't a good thing.It will only destroy your brain cells. Plan for your career now than your marriage. Once you've had a career, nothing can stop you from going through the winning line.
loner.
